“Every pain gives a lesson and every lesson changes a person.” – GMB Akash
“self-parenting,” is a practice of consciously treat yourself the way you should have been treated in your childhood. As you do so, you learn to fulfill your own needs for structure, validation, safety, and love. YOU become the adult your inner child needs. Even if you had parents who tried their best, there are still benefits from attempting this. Your self-parenting needs might look entirely different, because your childhood experiences are unique to you! Think about what you needed as a child to be healthy and happy, then offer those things to yourself with patience and compassion. – Introvert Doodles
Drawing by RongTulyArts
The core point in living healthy life is to love own self. This can be difficult due to different damages…as you know you have survived a lot. What did you learn? If we don’t learn from our past, it keeps haunting us. Remember how your pain felt through your traumas…why did you survive? Isn’t it because you love yourself? Isn’t it because you refused to give up? If you don’t like the version of you right now, how do expect a real love from others? Pamper yourself more, fill your everything with love for yourself. Look at the old albums…ask yourself, could you harm that little girl in the photo? We lose parts of ourselves through pain but if we choose to love us more we can overcome the pains. Don’t hurt yourself like this. You do matter. To who? To you.
Unknown
Other times we’ll still feel strongly that we need to fight for justice, but this doesn’t require us to act with aggression. It requires calm, careful planning and acting, if it’s something we can, in fact, control. This leads to the last step. – Lori Deschene on How to Deal with Unfairness and Change the Things You Can
**Collection of quotes to keep me inspired on the long run**
Vegan Bangla 